{"id":6624,"date":"2023-07-29T17:26:47","date_gmt":"2023-07-29T11:56:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/?p=6624"},"modified":"2023-07-29T17:28:48","modified_gmt":"2023-07-29T11:58:48","slug":"strategies-to-unlock-the-power-of-smart-decision-making","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/strategies-to-unlock-the-power-of-smart-decision-making\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Strategies To Unlock The Power Of Smart Decision-Making"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Thirty-five thousand . . . the number of decisions the average adult is estimated to make every day. That\u2019s more than double what most people put on their car\u2019s odometer in a whole year! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">It\u2019s no wonder I have a near mental breakdown picking out pickles from the infinite options at the grocery store\u2014decision fatigue is real.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">From the second the alarm sounds, the decision machine gun autoloads beginning with the snooze button. How many snoozes before I\u2019m late? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Which then rapid fires into what to wear, what to eat, where to stop for coffee, whether to slow for the yellow light or NASCAR through it because I snoozed one too many times. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">And that\u2019s just the meaningless daily minutiae decisions. What about those prickly high stakes choices? Which job to pursue? How to invest your savings? Where to live? Who to marry? When, or if, to have kids? Or better yet, whether to get a dog?\u2014A real time dilemma and the catalyst for this very article. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">After months of back and forth, I was about ready to flip a flippin\u2019 coin or play a good ol\u2019 fashion game of eenie-meenie-miney-mo. Seems silly, but seriously! It\u2019s. A. Lot.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Our decisions have rewards and consequences; it\u2019s an up and down seesaw of wins and losses where we attempt to tip the scale in our favor. The trouble is, I kind of suck at it. I\u2019ve never been good at predicting the future. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Perhaps that\u2019s because I\u2019m not a wizard or a weatherman. Decisions, in essence, are merely our best guesses. We lean on emotions and perceptions to guide us\u2014which, as you can imagine, is as reliable as a mood ring\u2014with the hope that our choices will lead to some desirable outcome. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">But with so many variables at play, how do we make the most of a thirty-five thousand question guessing game? After some research, here\u2019s six of the best tips I gathered.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"toc_container\" class=\"no_bullets\"><p class=\"toc_title\">Contents<\/p><ul class=\"toc_list\"><li><a href=\"#Six_strategies_to_consider_when_making_decisions\">Six strategies to consider when making decisions: <\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#1_Does_your_decision_support_your_core_values\">1. Does your decision support your core values? <\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#2_Do_the_benefits_outweigh_the_cost\">2. Do the benefits outweigh the cost? <\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#3_Embrace_doubt\">3. Embrace doubt. <\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#4_Beware_the_decoy\">4. Beware the decoy. <\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#5_Narrow_your_options\">5. Narrow your options. <\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#6_Write\">6. Write. <\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n<h2><span id=\"Six_strategies_to_consider_when_making_decisions\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Six strategies to consider when making decisions: <\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span id=\"1_Does_your_decision_support_your_core_values\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">1. Does your decision support your core values? <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Evaluate decisions based on the beliefs that guide you and eliminate choices that conflict with those core values. We can never truly know how things might turn out differently had we made another choice, but you can rest easy if your moral compass is your guide. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Dog Decision: A Case Study\u2014My kids (9 and 5) desperately desire a dog. My emotions and perceptions tell me I don\u2019t want the responsibilities that come with a dog: training, vet appointments, cleaning, bathing, walking, etc. On the other hand, my core values align with the belief that my children will considerably benefit from the affection and companionship of a beloved pet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"2_Do_the_benefits_outweigh_the_cost\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">2. Do the benefits outweigh the cost? <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Just because something might be the \u201cbest deal,\u201d does <\/span><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">not make it the best for you. People are emotional beings who tend to focus on short-term rewards without enough consideration for long-term consequences. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">A dog breeder offers a \u201climited time only\u201d discount, but my future pet care fees are far greater than the immediate savings. Remember, every decision is the building block for another impending decision. That discounted dog will not only continue to wear on my wallet and my time, but it will continue to inadvertently add miles to my decision-odometer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"3_Embrace_doubt\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">3. Embrace doubt. <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Uncertainty pushes you out of your comfort zone. Doubt is your body\u2019s way of sounding the alarm when actions conflict with the aforementioned core values that ground you. <a href=\"https:\/\/markmanson.net\">Best selling author and blogger Mark Manson<\/a>, suggests that when examining choices, instead of asking yourself which decision is \u201cright,\u201d you should ask yourself which decision you would regret. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Acquiring a dog will add burdens that will change our routines and limit our freedoms, undoubtedly uncomfortable. I have serious misgivings about a dog influencing where I can vacation and for how long. On the other hand, I believe to my core that pets bring immeasurable joy, love, comfort, and all the warm fuzzies into a home. The decision is not a matter of right or wrong, rather a question of which I might regret more. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"4_Beware_the_decoy\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">4. Beware the decoy. <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Humans have a predisposition to compare. Dan Ariely, psychology professor and author of Predictably Irrational, explores this condition with the decoy effect\u2014when people compare two similar items, introducing a third less attractive option can skew that decision. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">To illustrate, imagine we have found two precious pups, both of which have a reputation for being great family pets and cost the same price. The dilemma is between Dog A who doesn\u2019t shed, and Dog B who is more manageable in size. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The kids are equally as infatuated with both. (And no, I am most definitely not about to adopt two!) A difficult decision indeed. Now, let\u2019s say a third option becomes available: Dog A- (A minus). This dog is just the same as A, but has a slightly higher price tag (a less appealing option). Suddenly, Dog A appears to be a more attractive deal and tips the scale in favor of a fur-free home over. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"5_Narrow_your_options\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">5. Narrow your options. <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Americans live by the narrative that more choice equals more possibility. \u201cIt\u2019s good to keep your options open.\u201d But is it? Too many options bog down the brain and lead to poorer decisions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The effort it takes to perceive differences between similar options inflates that pesky doubt bubble. Choice is seductive in theory, but painful in practice. When making a decision, it\u2019s best to narrow the options. The more animal shelters, pet stores, and apps we explore, the more analysis paralysis delays our decision. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"6_Write\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">6. Write. <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Obviously, I\u2019m a huge proponent of writing as a tool to better understand yourself and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/how-to-make-peace-with-your-inner-voice\/\">your inner voice<\/a>. As I have emphasized in previous articles, writing forces us to organize our frenzied thoughts into something concrete, enabling us to look more objectively at a situation, in this case decision-making. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Write more than just a traditional list of pros and cons, but include potential regrets and hopes; consider your core values, doubts, and possible decoys. Moving your thoughts to a page will enable you to see a situation more clearly, albeit harder than flipping for heads or tails.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The fact is, we don\u2019t know if any of our said 35,000 decisions are any good until we\u2019ve experienced good results. But once a decision has been made, don\u2019t fall victim to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/five-phrases-you-should-stop-saying-to-yourself\/\">had-I-only-known<\/a> self destruct button. Plunge ahead with the strategies and keep rolling the dice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">So, the question remains . . . did we get a dog?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">We call him Palmer. He\u2019s a golden doodle. His favorite things include, but are not limited to, posing as the hamper bandit, ring around the palm tree, and shoes . . . all of the shoes. Our hearts are full.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thirty-five thousand . . . the number of decisions the average adult is estimated to make every day. That\u2019s more than double what most people put on their car\u2019s odometer in a whole year! It\u2019s no wonder I have a near mental breakdown picking out pickles from the infinite options at the grocery store\u2014decision fatigue [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":135,"featured_media":6625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[189],"tags":[744],"aioseo_notices":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6624"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/135"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6624"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6624\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6627,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6624\/revisions\/6627"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifegram.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}